how men cope with partners who are W/L

[Georgia]

I see that your pots & kettle are shiny stainless these days Georgia



P.S.

That aint all thats shiny hehe

[Grey]

i dont need to pretend to be an expert like redknob is, and he can believe whatever fantasy he wants to operate in, its his delusion that since he is lying, everyone else must be lying as well.

alot of pornstars are in fairly serious relationships. No i never attended her shoots, i did pick her up after tho and met some of her co workers. TBH with the exception for 1 or 2 knobs most are grown up about it and professional about this, its just a job. When i was in usa several famous pornstars were all either married or in serious relationships, Peter North, Ron Jeremy, Jill Kelly, Brianna Banks, even Lex Steele was married etc. Of course they dont make it public knowledge as their fan base still want the fantasy of them being single etc.

oh as a side note, Nevada largest brothel , the Crazy Horse, was built by a client who married his regular WL .

[DaveCNZ]

i dont need to pretend to be an expert like redknob is, and he can believe whatever fantasy he wants to operate in, its his delusion that since he is lying, everyone else must be lying as well.

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In his fantasy, even he couldn't get a date with wannabe pornstar, so how dare you to even mention that you've actually dated one!

[Xman]

i dont need to pretend to be an expert like redknob is, and he can believe whatever fantasy he wants to operate in, its his delusion that since he is lying, everyone else must be lying as well.

alot of pornstars are in fairly serious relationships. No i never attended her shoots, i did pick her up after tho and met some of her co workers. TBH with the exception for 1 or 2 knobs most are grown up about it and professional about this, its just a job. When i was in usa several famous pornstars were all either married or in serious relationships, Peter North, Ron Jeremy, Jill Kelly, Brianna Banks, even Lex Steele was married etc. Of course they dont make it public knowledge as their fan base still want the fantasy of them being single etc.

oh as a side note, Nevada largest brothel , the Crazy Horse, was built by a client who married his regular WL .

Hell... a couple of things we agree on Grey.

[Victoria777]

Do you men ever ask, who would marry a man who visits hookers on a regular basis.. ? Or do you men forget to bring this into the equation of romance. The facts are guys...HOOKERS are mostly normal gals...making their way in this world, and PUNTERS are usually just guys looking for a bit of nooky...Ive said this before, the TRUTH lies in HONESTY...not something that walks side by side of infidelity...This arguement is boring...ask any couple, that are not swingers....is infildelity okay....and the answer is NO....Get a grip and get real....if you love someone, you dont want them bonking other people, its not natural. However, sometimes you meet someone, you fall in love with them, and then you find out...she's a worker, or he is a cheater ! For some, the ego involved in accepting such an act is to much, for another, the feeling of want love or desire overrides the act...they move on...I would like to point out, in most cases, a head fuck follows....another story...but for godsake...hookers and punters are just people....

[Grey]

err whats the point in that post victoria? Punters are ordinary guys, just like WLs, ergo it seems reasonable to assume that there is no difference in a WL settling down and getting married and a punter settling down and getting married. Given that we are all willing to give a WL the benefit of the doubt that things will be fine, you should extend that to the punter.

[danbo]

Do you men ever ask, who would marry a man who visits hookers on a regular basis.. ? Or do you men forget to bring this into the equation of romance. The facts are guys...HOOKERS are mostly normal gals...making their way in this world, and PUNTERS are usually just guys looking for a bit of nooky...Ive said this before, the TRUTH lies in HONESTY...not something that walks side by side of infidelity...This arguement is boring...ask any couple, that are not swingers....is infildelity okay....and the answer is NO....Get a grip and get real....if you love someone, you dont want them bonking other people, its not natural. However, sometimes you meet someone, you fall in love with them, and then you find out...she's a worker, or he is a cheater ! For some, the ego involved in accepting such an act is to much, for another, the feeling of want love or desire overrides the act...they move on...I would like to point out, in most cases, a head fuck follows....another story...but for godsake...hookers and punters are just people....

Love is a headfuck, hookers are a service provider. Its the purest form of fucking. Fucking with out headfucking. Most enjoyable.
But have to disagree about wots not natural, vic. Bonking people is natural, resisting sexual attraction is unnatural and self-denial. Must be a Catholic idea I would guess.
We're all animals, Vic, c'mon loosen up girl
Why spend ur life pollinating one flower when the gardens full of beautiful new experiences?
Why go a la carte and order the same main every time, and no dessert
Why listen to vivaldi all the time when theres millions of other composers you can enjoy
capishe?

[Victoria777]

Love is a headfuck, hookers are a service provider. Its the purest form of fucking. Fucking with out headfucking. Most enjoyable.
But have to disagree about wots not natural, vic. Bonking people is natural, resisting sexual attraction is unnatural and self-denial. Must be a Catholic idea I would guess.
We're all animals, Vic, c'mon loosen up girl
Why spend ur life pollinating one flower when the gardens full of beautiful new experiences?
Why go a la carte and order the same main every time, and no dessert
Why listen to vivaldi all the time when theres millions of other composers you can enjoy
capishe?

I understand your currently playing the field, after coming out of a relationship where the woman was a real bitch....a crazy ex so to speak...
I am not one to fuck the world, it doesnt to it for me....and, I am happy to have a salad every night for dinner...
So dambo you want to fuck the world, and you want it to be normal....good luck with that....because most healthy relationships do not consist of open style sex...but we could call you RAMBO instead, taking out all the people in world who wish to be monogamous....

[Victoria777]

err whats the point in that post victoria? Punters are ordinary guys, just like WLs, ergo it seems reasonable to assume that there is no difference in a WL settling down and getting married and a punter settling down and getting married. Given that we are all willing to give a WL the benefit of the doubt that things will be fine, you should extend that to the punter.

Men are putting so much into could they have a service provider as a partner.....yet most are married and more then likely do not share their secret lives of worling girls iwth their wives, I wonder how many women would marry a man knowing he was a punter ?

[danbo]

I understand your currently playing the field, after coming out of a relationship where the woman was a real bitch....a crazy ex so to speak...
I am not one to fuck the world, it doesnt to it for me....and, I am happy to have a salad every night for dinner...
So dambo you want to fuck the world, and you want it to be normal....good luck with that....because most healthy relationships do not consist of open style sex...but we could call you RAMBO instead, taking out all the people in world who wish to be monogamous....

Not quite. The crazy ex thing did happen, but now I'm in a long term loving relationship, with communication , without deception and with a desire to enhance each others experience of pleasure in life. I recommend it, hun.
Sounds like u consider a serious relationship to be one of possession , control and restriction. Doesnt have to be like that. You only live once, girl.\ and same with your partner.