Married/together for maybe 20 years now.

We have kids which of course complicates everything.

Started punting 2 months ago because it's got to the point now where it sometimes takes up to 2 weeks of begging for maybe 5 minutes of late night star-fishing when I am too tired to enjoy it.

I've always really liked sex whereas she is indifferent. Combination of changing hormones, kids, work stress, etc I guess.

So now I've found a way to have amazing sex with really hot attractive women.

I feel a bit shit sometimes, but I am getting over it.