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    Quote Originally Posted by reg_regan View Post
    How would him accepting your offer to pay affect his rating ?
    It wouldn't change it. It can be seen respectful both ways. Yes he's a gentleman If he pays but he's still a gentleman in not knowing me letting me cover half. I could be hard out feminist for all he knows and think paying for me is degrading.
    Either way I'd respect him. But if he paid and expected me to be dessert then he won't get a second date. Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missy33 View Post
    I could be hard out feminist for all he knows and think paying for me is degrading.
    Maybe thats why I copped a right spray for holding a door open once.

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    My thoughts/experience... Whomever asked, pays the bill.
    Whenever I have asked some 'lucky' man out, I expected to pay.

    And I wouldn't be on a date with someone if I hadn't "slept" with him already, or in the very least, intended to very soon.
    Should a woman pay for her meal?

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    I feel sorry for the guys that pay the whole bill only to then be told "you're a really nice guy but I didn't feel any spark..." what do these ladies expect? A taser? Lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by AmandaJameson View Post
    My thoughts/experience... Whomever asked, pays the bill.
    Whenever I have asked some 'lucky' man out, I expected to pay.

    And I wouldn't be on a date with someone if I hadn't "slept" with him already, or in the very least, intended to very soon.

    Agreed if you ask someone out you should pay but it's also a "no strings to it" i.e. If I pay the bill I do not except she will jump into bed with me....
    If she does FUCKING YES!!! But if not no worries either.
    Chinese tradition is if they ask you out they pay and it's very bad manners to try and pay even 1/2 of the bill. But off course there is also reciprocation in that they would like you to ask them out and then you pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    I feel sorry for the guys that pay the whole bill only to then be told "you're a really nice guy but I didn't feel any spark..." what do these ladies expect? A taser? Lol
    Nah that's experience (and honesty from her) and trust me you have saved a whole LOT of money rather than she leads you down the ATM path.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by KiwiBloke2 View Post
    ..............Chinese tradition is if they ask you out they pay and it's very bad manners to try and pay even 1/2 of the bill. ............
    Agreed. I really did struggle to understand this initially. A business associate just simply would not accept my protest 'But you paid last time'. It reached the point where I became very uncomfortable that he continually paid for meals.

    I regret not doing more research on cultural subtleties.

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    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    I feel sorry for the guys that pay the whole bill only to then be told "you're a really nice guy but I didn't feel any spark..." what do these ladies expect? A taser? Lol
    lol then they shouldn't ask a lady for dinner date.They can always go for a coffee at McDonald
    Should a woman pay for her meal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SASHA NZG View Post
    lol then they shouldn't ask a lady for dinner date.They can always go for a coffee at McDonald
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cadet.Raver View Post
    I dont really think its about anything more than showing you can afford to pay for a meal at least.

    Even any knob riding charlie should know that if on a first date, he cant even front up with the cost of a meal, then hes gonna be seen as a sad arse broke little boy.
    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    I feel sorry for the guys that pay the whole bill only to then be told "you're a really nice guy but I didn't feel any spark..." what do these ladies expect? A taser? Lol
    Quote Originally Posted by SASHA NZG View Post
    lol then they shouldn't ask a lady for dinner date.They can always go for a coffee at McDonald
    Expectations I think are why no one bothers dating anymore.

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