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    Quote Originally Posted by AmandaJameson View Post
    My thoughts/experience... Whomever asked, pays the bill.
    Whenever I have asked some 'lucky' man out, I expected to pay.

    And I wouldn't be on a date with someone if I hadn't "slept" with him already, or in the very least, intended to very soon.

    What's wrong with just going out with a guy for dinner and enjoying the company and conversation ... nothing more expected.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wargasm.950 View Post
    Expectations I think are why no one bothers dating anymore.
    It seems to be somewhat of a lost art going on date

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    Quote Originally Posted by amante View Post
    What's wrong with just going out with a guy for dinner and enjoying the company and conversation ... nothing more expected.
    Exactly.

    I can't ever remember regretting buying dinner for a lady. I enjoy the company of women immensely, and if my punting circumstances were different, I think I would always try to include dinner in a punt.

    On that subject, increasingly I notice punters focusing on at least trying to make punts mutually enjoyable, so towards that end, why not give a lady the option of dinner first? Surely a punt is better for both parties if there is some familiarity first? Why not make it an experience, rather than just a shag?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Clusterfuck View Post
    It seems to be somewhat of a lost art going on date
    I agree. Ive never actually been on a date as such, but at the same time, I can't remember the last time I heard someone say , "Im going on a date."

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    Quote Originally Posted by amante View Post
    What's wrong with just going out with a guy for dinner and enjoying the company and conversation ... nothing more expected.
    Because TV (American more than most) has taught us that nobody does anything without expecting some form of benefit, usually sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello Sailor View Post
    Exactly.

    I can't ever remember regretting buying dinner for a lady. I enjoy the company of women immensely, and if my punting circumstances were different, I think I would always try to include dinner in a punt.

    On that subject, increasingly I notice punters focusing on at least trying to make punts mutually enjoyable, so towards that end, why not give a lady the option of dinner first? Surely a punt is better for both parties if there is some familiarity first? Why not make it an experience, rather than just a shag?
    Finance?

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    Quote Originally Posted by amante View Post
    What's wrong with just going out with a guy for dinner and enjoying the company and conversation ... nothing more expected.
    Theres certainly nothing wrong with that, but it's my understanding that going on a date is more than a plutonic thing. Wine,dine and romance and all that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wargasm.950 View Post
    I agree. Ive never actually been on a date as such, but at the same time, I can't remember the last time I heard someone say , "Im going on a date."
    I think one of the reasons I punt, is that it's a substitute for dating. If I was single, I think I would try to date most nights, provided I could find women who would put up with me!

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    Quote Originally Posted by wargasm.950 View Post
    Finance?
    Possibly, but its worth considering that your punt might only cost twice as much, but be three times longer, and three times better.

    Cost versus value for money

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hello Sailor View Post
    Possibly, but its worth considering that your punt might only cost twice as much, but be three times longer, and three times better.

    Cost versus value for money
    I would have thought a diner date with a hooker would be charged at an hourly rate plus expenses, then standard rate for rumpy-pumpy time? Im afraid I dont see the logic in "twice as much, but three times longer"

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