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    why the fuck are you watching a dating show on tv? sheeesh.

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    Both that and the Batchelor shows are BS . People should just book a girl and have a good fuck .

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    Quote Originally Posted by chuckie2 View Post
    Both that and the Batchelor shows are BS . People should just book a girl and have a good fuck .
    I agree. Problem is it can be bloody expensive...mind you it's better value than for the poor schmuck who pays for the women's meal and gets rejected anyway.

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    The amount of woman that sit there and wait for him to say he will pay is embarrassing I find. Unless you want to date him again pay half at least! Lol
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    Not that it overly matters , but from the brief bits of these types of shows I've seen , I always assumed the show paid for the meals and more ( maybe clothes vouchers and drinks and motels , possibly a bit of cash ? ) , and I also assume they purposely mismatch 90% of couples on a dating show , as it makes better TV -- that Batchelor show is slightly different , in that you do want to have mainly ditzy hotties ( and the occassional outspoken nympho too ? ) on that , again as it makes 'good TV' .

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    Quote Originally Posted by Meadow40 View Post
    My tip for dating. Be who you really are, not who she thinks you might be. Wear a turtle neck if it's you. Better to loose her on first date being yourself than faking it and down the track when it hurts more.
    And never underestimate yourself. One guy I know thinks he'd never attract a woman socially, he misses the signs and the looks.
    That's another problem. I think a lot of guys aren't good at reading the subtle body language that indicates a woman finds him attractive. We're expected to be assertive but aren't trained to know when it's appropriate. It doesn't help when the moment a guy as the audacity to reveal a sexual interest in a woman (eg the guy who was caught glancing at his date's boobs) he gets scolded for it and thus plays it too cautiously for the rest of the night.

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    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    That's another problem. I think a lot of guys aren't good at reading the subtle body language that indicates a woman finds him attractive. We're expected to be assertive but aren't trained to know when it's appropriate. It doesn't help when the moment a guy as the audacity to reveal a sexual interest in a woman (eg the guy who was caught glancing at his date's boobs) he gets scolded for it and thus plays it too cautiously for the rest of the night.
    I think that you over think everything and that is the problem. Why dont you just be be yourself, show respect towards the women, and if she does not like you, well then fuck it, move on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    That's another problem. I think a lot of guys aren't good at reading the subtle body language that indicates a woman finds him attractive. We're expected to be assertive but aren't trained to know when it's appropriate. It doesn't help when the moment a guy as the audacity to reveal a sexual interest in a woman (eg the guy who was caught glancing at his date's boobs) he gets scolded for it and thus plays it too cautiously for the rest of the night.
    I was always shy and only know they were interested when their tongue was in my mouth or their hands in my pants

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    Quote Originally Posted by **bell** View Post
    I think that you over think everything and that is the problem. Why dont you just be be yourself, show respect towards the women, and if she does not like you, well then fuck it, move on.
    Sort of like trying to get a job. If you don't get picked, never mind, move on. Of course, 500 job applications later it can be a bit soul destroying...

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    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    That's another problem. I think a lot of guys aren't good at reading the subtle body language that indicates a woman finds him attractive. We're expected to be assertive but aren't trained to know when it's appropriate. It doesn't help when the moment a guy as the audacity to reveal a sexual interest in a woman (eg the guy who was caught glancing at his date's boobs) he gets scolded for it and thus plays it too cautiously for the rest of the night.
    True!!
    For us woman the signs are usually clear. He looks, he smiles, keeps giving you eye contact, he walks over or You go to him knowing your in.
    Guys don't get the eye from the girl usually. We wait for him! Lol

    Some woman hate guys approaching them but I always thought good on him for having the balls!!

    Body language is a give away. She leans toward you, touches her hair, plays with it, pushes it back, her body is open not closed. She is into you!!
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