In my humble opinion, Imnot looking for a one night stand if I was to date. I think the best idea for me if I was looking for someone and what has always worked for me in the past is to just socialize and everynow and then someone interesting comes a long, you get a talking, if I like him, yep he is for me, grab him by the balls and say we are now in a relationship. lol. If I see something (someone) I like I will take it. (him) Within reason.
Originally Posted by SASHA NZG
In regards to tv dating shows, they match people up that will get people watching the show, things like The Bachelor and what not, yes are all general bull kaka. Agreed.
And Massage lover, I dont know what you look for on dates, if its for a one night stand or a relationship, but usually women look for a stable man with a job who will be a great partner and possible great father to our children. (Weather we think that is what we are looking for at the time or not) It is the way women are built.
Present yourself well, have some confidence and be yourself. If you dont have a job yet, the best thing to do is to work on yourself and love yourself first, when you are able to do that the world is your oyster.
Just my opnions