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    Quote Originally Posted by slowhand View Post
    I think what these girls are saying is that they don't want fingers. What you're saying is they should get over themselves.

    Friendly fingers are welcome,. Aggressive fingers are not.

    But really, my intent for this thread was all around "Consent".

    From my personal experiences, the majority of you lovely amazing men are so good at asking consent, it melts my heart and gets my juices flowing.

    Consent goes both directions........I love giving prostrate massage.....I can orgasm from the sensations that ripple from your inner sanctum through my fingers and into me....but I always ask first......I've gotten better at clarifying, as more than one who said "yes" didn't know what they had consented to and got a "bit of a shock"...

    I understand Dens perspective,. Hence the reason I initially wasn't clear to the jackerhammer. Now I am clear. Friendly fingers that have the ability to communicate are welcome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scubamike View Post
    The pleasure I take out of bookings is to see a having pleasure.

    If sticking a finger in there is not her cup of tea, why do it? On the other hand, Iíve had a gorgeous WG who practically demanded a finger or 2 during You could tell she was almost there
    I love the finger in there while being devoured, a still non moving finger, something about the weight inside of me.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Shelby View Post
    I love the finger in there while being devoured, a still non moving finger, something about the weight inside of me.....
    Thank you Shelby for having the good grace and insight to bring some balance to this discussion. Quite simply I like to pop in a finger if lady is ok with it ok if not no problem. Lots are happy others not. Im clear its the WG choice. I'd prefer of course to see a lady who matches with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Den View Post
    Thank you Shelby for having the good grace and insight to bring some balance to this discussion. Quite simply I like to pop in a finger if lady is ok with it ok if not no problem. Lots are happy others not. Im clear its the WG choice. I'd prefer of course to see a lady who matches with me.
    Thank you,

    It's always great to get the conversation flowing.

    I think we can all agree that open honest communication never goes astray.

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    Personally I like to do a bit of slow gentle external stroking during DATY. Start with stroking the inner thighs and stop if she tenses up.

    If she pushes herself onto my finger I'll follow her lead.

    Not hard to pick up on the signals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tfmanc View Post
    Personally I like to do a bit of slow gentle external stroking during DATY. Start with stroking the inner thighs and stop if she tenses up.

    If she pushes herself onto my finger I'll follow her lead.

    Not hard to pick up on the signals.

    YES, THIS. So much of making a good lover (as a client, or otherwise) is being able to really read body language- follow your lovers lead... if they're moving in certain ways, if they're thrusting against you in certain ways- even that soft intake of breath and a little sigh when you do something. So many non-verbal cues about what's good (and also cues about what's *not* working, like trying to subtly move away, trying to redirect your attention elsewhere)

    But if you feel like you can't read the body language, or their passion has dropped suddenly- use your words! Say "how does this feel? Do you want me to keep going? Or do you want me to (filthy suggestion). Communication is sexy, and even when it's not it's still essential!

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    Good article today on Stuff and it explains muff self cleaning
    The vagina is self-cleaning,
    Anything put in the vagina can potentially disrupt the vaginal environment and its balanced vaginal flora, including tampons, penises, condoms, semen, fingers and hygienic sex toys. Disruption in these cases is almost always temporary and the vagina quickly restores itself.
    But I guess the WG kit probably see a bit more action than average muff so might be a factor.

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    Whats a muff??? Whats a WG kit??? Think about your words, Man. those are some ugly words ....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Den View Post
    Good article today on Stuff and it explains muff self cleaning
    The vagina is self-cleaning,
    Anything put in the vagina can potentially disrupt the vaginal environment and its balanced vaginal flora, including tampons, penises, condoms, semen, fingers and hygienic sex toys. Disruption in these cases is almost always temporary and the vagina quickly restores itself.
    But I guess the WG kit probably see a bit more action than average muff so might be a factor.
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    EVERY man needs to watch this very interesting video by Nina Hartley on how to eat and finger pussy properly.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Shelby View Post
    Whats a muff??? Whats a WG kit??? Think about your words, Man. those are some ugly words ....

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    Apparently there are 238 words for the honey pot so just goes to show how high well regarded it is.

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