Having had a relationship of sorts with a WL, I can tell you that when she decided to work she would turn her phone on and immediately clear all of the txts and voicemails. Essentially she started each day as if it was her first day. Her reasoning: no stress trying to balance working vs not working vs appointments, schedules etc etc.

I guess the industry has become far more professional these days and probably punters might expect a different level of service. I still think though that a lot of the more 'casual / part time' WL's might take this approach to their working life.

The best advice I can give is, for you not to take it personally and to just keep trying