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    Hi all,

    I am confused as what is the real difference between Full Service and Girl Friend Experience? And just to clarify I have been out of the game for a while and thought I would treat myself to a GFE, but I found it (GFE) seems to be the same as the normal- quick hand job play, BJ and then f**king. lasting about 15min into an hour booking.

    Help as I am needing some sort of differential expectation for me as a punter. As I seemed to pay more but got the same old same old.

    Plus - is there a Lady out there that when book you can talk to in regard to expectations, instead of just taking a booking and turning up to a standard/GFE? service.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BJNASH View Post
    Hi all,

    I am confused as what is the real difference between Full Service and Girl Friend Experience? And just to clarify I have been out of the game for a while and thought I would treat myself to a GFE, but I found it (GFE) seems to be the same as the normal- quick hand job play, BJ and then f**king. lasting about 15min into an hour booking.

    Help as I am needing some sort of differential expectation for me as a punter. As I seemed to pay more but got the same old same old.

    Plus - is there a Lady out there that when book you can talk to in regard to expectations, instead of just taking a booking and turning up to a standard/GFE? service.

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    Kissing, cuddling and an impression of intimacy is my expectation of he difference.
    Sounds like you only got 1/4 service let alone full service!
    There are unfortunately many girls out there who advertise GFE but are really only willing to provide FS or less.

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    You should be able to discuss what your after with any lady you want to see. I don't know about other ladies but when a guy asks me what I do and don't do or if I provided certain things I appreciate it. Then we both know what to expect. A GFE include a standard service at a more intimate level with kissing, cuddling, mutual oral in it. That's my view on it anyway. Some girls may not feel comfortable offering these services so they shouldn't advertise they can do GFE.
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    the first thing I do when I ring up is say what I would like and some say no others say yes I like a kiss and cuddle and a bit of a play any thing else is a bonus
    and I have never had a problem with the ladies that I have rang but only use more mature ladies as I am older my self

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    Wow..no kissing? No cuddling?

    As a back and white answer, from what I've observed the difference between standard FS and GFE is:

    FS
    -hand job
    -BJ
    -sex
    -maybe massage

    GFE:
    -french kissing
    - oral on her if you choose
    -BJ
    -sex in multiple positions if you choose
    - multi-shots if you choose
    - cuddling
    - a general sense of heightened affection

    It's difficult for a girl to control how long a guy lasts for, that's really up to him unless there is some D/s dynamic happening. But if a guy shows that he wants to go again then it should always be possible in a GFE.

    You've linked the Doll House here, if you were unhappy with your experience feel free to message Rebecca and have a chat about what you felt went wrong.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BJNASH View Post
    Hi all,

    I am confused as what is the real difference between Full Service and Girl Friend Experience? And just to clarify I have been out of the game for a while and thought I would treat myself to a GFE, but I found it (GFE) seems to be the same as the normal- quick hand job play, BJ and then f**king. lasting about 15min into an hour booking.

    Help as I am needing some sort of differential expectation for me as a punter. As I seemed to pay more but got the same old same old.

    Plus - is there a Lady out there that when book you can talk to in regard to expectations, instead of just taking a booking and turning up to a standard/GFE? service.

    Help
    GFE at its core is intimacy. You know you've had the best GFE when you wake up the next day missing the way they touch you, missing the way they made you laugh and missing them as an overall person.

    At any time during the booking process, you can say what you are specifically looking for with any escort. If you are not satisfied with their answers when they reply, do not book.

    My job is to anticipate your needs and fulfill them without having the gift of mind reading. As a result, I make it a point to ask most of my clients their expectations at the start of the booking. Generally, no one has an answer other than "just the normal" but that's okay. However, you will definitely get an entirely different experience if you mention a certain preference.

    If you want to spend some more time getting to know me, then say it. I can give you hot oil massage while we talk, laugh and flirt. If you mention you had leg day that morning, guess who is going to experience a slow and sensual build up instead of a vigorous and borderline heart attack inducing session? If you tell me you tend to finish quickly, I will drag out foreplay/slow down sex or ask if you want to go multiple rounds. It's an experience that can be completely tailored to your preference.

    If you paid for a GFE and you left questioning what it is, then you did not get GFE.

    If you had a sub-standard service at DH, I encourage you to e-mail Rebecca at rebecca@dollhouseescorts.co.nz and detail your experiences so we can improve.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BJNASH View Post
    Hi all,

    I am confused as what is the real difference between Full Service and Girl Friend Experience? And just to clarify I have been out of the game for a while and thought I would treat myself to a GFE, but I found it (GFE) seems to be the same as the normal- quick hand job play, BJ and then f**king. lasting about 15min into an hour booking.

    Help as I am needing some sort of differential expectation for me as a punter. As I seemed to pay more but got the same old same old.

    Plus - is there a Lady out there that when book you can talk to in regard to expectations, instead of just taking a booking and turning up to a standard/GFE? service.

    Help
    GFE means no babe....I have a headache or Iím tired I want to sleep....not tonite..Ok Iím just joking couldnít help myself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SASHA NZG View Post
    GFE means no babe....I have a headache or I’m tired I want to sleep....not tonite..Ok I’m just joking couldn’t help myself.
    Sasha, - that's the WE (Wife Experience), which is a syndrome that develops some time after the ME (Marriage Experience)

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    As others have said, full service is sex, GFE is sex with intimacy. If you just want to 'blow your load', then FS is fine. If you want a sense of normality and reality, then go for GFE.

    There are a few things to consider though. For a lady to provide sex is one thing, but providing realistic intimacy is quite another. If there is a massive age difference, then making a booking seem realistic is a big ask of a lady, and things like personal hygiene are a bigger issue for GFE, not to mention the inevitable longer duration of a GFE booking. You will also see the term connection bandied around here, and that is another part of GFE, but with all of this comes a heightened risk of unwanted attachment, particularly if the GFE is too good.

    Personally, a sense of reality is really important to me. I don't like the idea of turning up and having to perform with a relative stranger within 30 minutes particularly appealing, nor do I like the idea of seeing somebody half my age. I tend to see ladies who are closer to my own age if I can, and I make my personal circumstances clear, so she is in no doubt that regardless of how intimate the booking becomes, I am only ever going to see it as a commercial arrangement, regardless of how compatible we might be.

    Good GFE is great, but you have to play your part as well, and make sure you keep your feet firmly on terra firma after you walk out the door.

    Hope this helps.

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    For a lady to provide sex is one thing, but providing realistic intimacy is quite another.
    I have a client that texts in and asks me to be fully dressed when I greet him at the door. It makes it more realistic for him. I sit on his lap while he asks me about my day like you would with any GF. Asking me to be fully clothed hints at his desire for normalcy, so I spend more time emotionally connecting and being non-sexually affectionate (i.e. talking to him, massages, kissing his cheek, holding hands, sitting on his lap etc.) and creating the illusion of "normal". With other clients, this would be a disaster. They'd be wondering if I'm trying to avoid sex.

    There really isn't a "set" way of doing GFE because everyone has different expectations. Communicating clearly beforehand what you want is 100% the way to go. Hinting for things is a gamble and telepathy doesn't work.

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