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    Question for the ladies...

    I've been watching this show called First Dates Australia and I noticed that many of the guys insist on settling the bill even when their dates offer to pay for their meals. It seems to be an old-fashioned convention of chivalry but I can't help but wonder if a lot of men do that as a way of seeking her approval. If you were first-dating a guy who insisted on paying for everything how would you perceive that? Would you be more inclined to sleep with him if he did? (Yes, i am questioning whether there is any difference between dating and punting!)

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    Paying for a meal wouldn't get him access to the sack with me . But it would get me thinking he's a lovely guy and possibly a second date, which then may get him closer. Lol
    I'm a proud woman I'll always offer to pay half as I think it's fair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Missy33 View Post
    Paying for a meal wouldn't get him access to the sack with me . But it would get me thinking he's a lovely guy and possibly a second date, which then may get him closer. Lol
    I'm a proud woman I'll always offer to pay half as I think it's fair.
    How would him accepting your offer to pay affect his rating ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by massage_lover View Post
    ........... It seems to be an old-fashioned convention of chivalry...................
    I would hate to think that chivalry was dead.

    If he offers to pay, the offer should never be conditional, and no lady should ever feel obligated to him as a result of acceptance.

    Call me old fashioned, but some traditions deserve to live on.

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    I dont really think its about anything more than showing you can afford to pay for a meal at least.

    Even any knob riding charlie should know that if on a first date, he cant even front up with the cost of a meal, then hes gonna be seen as a sad arse broke little boy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cadet.Raver View Post
    I dont really think its about anything more than showing you can afford to pay for a meal at least.

    Even any knob riding charlie should know that if on a first date, he cant even front up with the cost of a meal, then hes gonna be seen as a sad arse broke little boy.
    I think women should pay for the men

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    Would be a bit weird expecting a lady to pay half if you picked her up in an Aston Martin....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Average Joe View Post
    Would be a bit weird expecting a lady to pay half if you picked her up in an Aston Martin....
    Yes but if they pay , then they can take advantage of us

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    Quote Originally Posted by Average Joe View Post
    Would be a bit weird expecting a lady to pay half if you picked her up in an Aston Martin....
    Monthy payments could be a killer.

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