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    So I'm biting the bullet and going on my first punt.

    I'm Kiwi chinese but I've been mistaken for an ethnicity that person is hoping to avoid, not for discriminatory reasons of course

    How do i prove my ethnicity?
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    you should not have to what area are you in perhaps a more mature lady would help you I know the escort I go to has a least a couple of Chinese clients

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sildenafil View Post
    So I'm biting the bullet and going on my first punt.

    I'm Kiwi chinese but I've been mistaken for an ethnicity that person is hoping to avoid, not for discriminatory reasons of course

    How do i prove my ethnicity?

    Hi there,

    You should never need to prove your identity. Maybe see someone else.

    Everyone deserves there privacy in this arena.

    xx

    Jessie

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sildenafil View Post
    So I'm biting the bullet and going on my first punt.

    I'm Kiwi chinese but I've been mistaken for an ethnicity that person is hoping to avoid, not for discriminatory reasons of course

    How do i prove my ethnicity?
    Ring and talk to the lady rather than text, the voice should be enough. Then say you are a Kiwi Chinese, and ask if that is ok. Be upfront. If the lady is still weary or unwilling to take the booking cross her off you list and go to the next one, you need to feel that you are welcome before the booking.

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    Thanks for your replies guys. From my "research" I think its to avoid people in her community, she sounded nice and i dont really find it offensive or anything. Just amusing in an odd sort of way

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    Yeah she called me on the phone had try to have me speak Chinese but being the Kiwi I am my chinese was broken af

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    I'm going to suggest you book someone else . That seems to be what the lady wants , so she's going to be 'on guard' right through the booking , IF she even accepts it .

    Totally up to you and her , but my attitude is that if either you or her are hesitant -- why persist ? There will be others that you are attracted to , who will see you with no hoops to jump through , so that's where I would head .

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    The only thing you need to prove is
    1) Your not a Nutter
    2) You have the money
    3) You are clean and have some manners

    Otherwise best to go somewhere else.

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    I ask for prove of identity is when going on a random outcall with a new client.... ie meeting at the beach or river or forest block for a fantasy..... I photograph ID .... send to private phone, along with car rego and delete both after service is complete. Never had any issue. Safety is paramount but discretion is right next to it.*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Crocodile View Post
    The only thing you need to prove is
    1) Your not a Nutter
    2) You have the money
    3) You are clean and have some manners

    Otherwise best to go somewhere else.
    This is sensible, of course.

    However, it is legal for any vendor to refuse right of service on private property without reason (folks do not have automatic right of entry to any private property), although they cannot refused service for the specified reasons that are covered by the Human Rights Act 1993. However, the vendor doesn't have to specify a reason - "I don't want to" is legal enough. "I don't want to because you voted national" is specifically illegal, however.

    Also, in the case of sex workers, I think selling sexual services is different from selling stamps, and I would have thought given the very personal nature of the service, the right of refusal criteria would be somewhat more liberal than usual.

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