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    Hi guys and girls,

    I'm a heterosexual guy in my 40's. Lately I've been having an urge to visit a T-girl. It's not a fascination, but more of a curiosity. Is that normal? Has anyone being in my situation and gone ahead and visited a t-girl? How did you feel later?

    I love boobs and I don't mind doing anal (don't fancy taking it). But not sure how I would feel handling someone else's dick.

    I am apprehensive that I may feel guilt or shameful afterwards . And at the same time I may love it; but then would that make me a gay? LOL!!

    Any thoughts or advice from the wise men and women out there?

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    Have a look thru this thread
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    Have a read of some of these stories
    Transsexuals & Crossdressers Stories - Literotica

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    Worst case...you discover that the fantasy is better than the reality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Gspot View Post
    Hi guys and girls,

    I'm a heterosexual guy in my 40's. Lately I've been having an urge to visit a T-girl. It's not a fascination, but more of a curiosity. Is that normal? Has anyone being in my situation and gone ahead and visited a t-girl? How did you feel later?

    I love boobs and I don't mind doing anal (don't fancy taking it). But not sure how I would feel handling someone else's dick.

    I am apprehensive that I may feel guilt or shameful afterwards . And at the same time I may love it; but then would that make me a gay? LOL!!

    Any thoughts or advice from the wise men and women out there?
    I cannot vouch for how you will feel after, but I can certainly tell you that engaging with a trans girl, a person who identifies as a woman, definitely does not 'make' you gay. If you ever feel uncomfortable will handling someone else's anatomy, you can stop at any time. Perhaps explain that you have never had this experience to any lady you contact. Trans women are women -- sexuality and gender are not mutual & are very different. You're still heterosexual as far as I am concerned; go forth and spoil a trans lady and have fun
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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss Serena Woo View Post
    I cannot vouch for how you will feel after, but I can certainly tell you that engaging with a trans girl, a person who identifies as a woman, definitely does not 'make' you gay. If you ever feel uncomfortable will handling someone else's anatomy, you can stop at any time. Perhaps explain that you have never had this experience to any lady you contact. Trans women are women -- sexuality and gender are not mutual & are very different. You're still heterosexual as far as I am concerned; go forth and spoil a trans lady and have fun
    This is such a well written response. Serena you've said it all perfectly.

    I think it's a good idea to confront the feelings of 'guilt and shame' before you even engage in the meeting. I've personally delt with this in the past too, especially when I was very young and exploring my kinky side. I always felt dirty and weird. Now my mindset is completely different, if I had the mindset that I have now I would have saved myself some pretty awful self-hating thoughts. I believe that we all need to accept that sexuality is diverse, unique and fluid. The only time when exploring our sexuality is 'wrong' is when it harms a being (human or otherwise) who has not given or cannot give consent to be harmed. If full informed consent is given between all parties involved in whatever you are doing, then there is nothing wrong with what you are doing and any residual 'bad' feelings only come from our cultural beliefs and socialization. Our society places traditional sex between husband and wife on a pedestal and creates the illusion that anything outside of this is 'naughty'. If you come to understand the way that your thoughts are influenced by cultural ideals and work on letting go of these, then a whole world of sexual exploration and personal autonomy opens up to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Breena View Post
    This is such a well written response. Serena you've said it all perfectly.

    I think it's a good idea to confront the feelings of 'guilt and shame' before you even engage in the meeting. I've personally delt with this in the past too, especially when I was very young and exploring my kinky side. I always felt dirty and weird. Now my mindset is completely different, if I had the mindset that I have now I would have saved myself some pretty awful self-hating thoughts. I believe that we all need to accept that sexuality is diverse, unique and fluid. The only time when exploring our sexuality is 'wrong' is when it harms a being (human or otherwise) who has not given or cannot give consent to be harmed. If full informed consent is given between all parties involved in whatever you are doing, then there is nothing wrong with what you are doing and any residual 'bad' feelings only come from our cultural beliefs and socialization. Our society places traditional sex between husband and wife on a pedestal and creates the illusion that anything outside of this is 'naughty'. If you come to understand the way that your thoughts are influenced by cultural ideals and work on letting go of these, then a whole world of sexual exploration and personal autonomy opens up to you.

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    Wow. Beautifully said.

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    Mate my view is you won’t know till you try. If you’re curious then take the next step. Get in the room and take it slowly, if it’s not for you at least you won’t die wondering. Most tgals are experienced at first timers and all the emotions you have described.

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