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    After reaching a huge decision in our marriage of finally deciding to book a WG for a threesome we're left feeling lost/abandoned/deflated etc.
    I wasn't going to write anything but its been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for us.
    We've always joked about threesomes and finally after 20yrs of talk we finally plucked up the courage to book a lovely looking lady for our first ever adventure. I sent a text and sorted price and was told I'd get a txt with time a bit later, all good. Got back in touch several hrs later as hadn't heard anything, got reply asking what we wanted and pencilled in a time to be confirmed later with address, ok off to get haircut and get some tidying up done in shower, note to self "don't spray linx near freshly shaven nuts ever again", we spent alot of time getting prepared for the nite ahead. So we get to within an hr of booking and are very anxious so txt to get address.......no reply.....time arrives....another txt.....no reply.....wait till an hr after and send another txt to ask whats going on its late.......no reply! So we go to bed feeling pretty pissed off after building ourselves up for hrs.
    I wake at 5am to see if any reply had come through, nothing! So txt back to say merry xmas and how let down we felt. I should mention this lady has great reviews and knew it was our 1st time and seemed genuinely excited to be our first. Mid morning I get a very apolgetic reply that she'd fallen asleep and said she was coming back to our town early Jan and would give a discount for letting us down. Ok we thought, she seemed sincere so said all was good and got excited again. I asked for dates so we could organise our different shifts and was told she'd get back to us once back at home base down South. I jokingly said we'd heard that before and was assured we'd hear back. Cool.
    Now for 2 weeks we are so worked up we're at it like teen agers haha. The anticipation is almost torture in a good way. At this point I txt and let her know how excited we've been and ask for date again........told the week but no dates. All good will not hound as afraid of being pushy. We may be a bit eager and don't really know what is acceptable contact wise. So its getting close to "our week" and I send a Happy New year txt and ask for dates so we can organise work.............no reply! Now I accept she is busy and the ph I'm txting is her travelling one so not concerned. Now the week was approaching and still no word so I email the agency to ask for dates, nothing, so direct email, nothing. Then Mrs gets in touch via cell to agency, finally gets a "we'll find out" for dates. A few hrs later we're told there are no plans for the girls to come back up here! WTF? I txt her direct to ask whats going on.....surprise.....no reply.
    3 weeks of excitement and anticipation for our 1st time blown out of the sky! Did we do something wrong? Was I too friendly? We're just left feeling like shit and over the whole thing. We thought choosing a well reviewed girl from a well reviewed business was the smart thing to do, apparently not.
    Sorry for the the novel but its driving me bonkers wondering what happened and put us off even trying again. Even signed up for members lounge on nzg and this site to choose her thinking it'd be the right way to go about it all.
    I wanted to name names but if its something we did then I'd feel stink.
    Will add that we ended up going past our only local on new years eve and thought bugger her! Went in and ended up getting it done...........Happy new year to us!
    End of novel...............had to get that out!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ExploringCouple View Post
    After reaching a huge decision in our marriage of finally deciding to book a WG for a threesome we're left feeling lost/abandoned/deflated etc.
    I wasn't going to write anything but its been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for us.
    We've always joked about threesomes and finally after 20yrs of talk we finally plucked up the courage to book a lovely looking lady for our first ever adventure. I sent a text and sorted price and was told I'd get a txt with time a bit later, all good. Got back in touch several hrs later as hadn't heard anything, got reply asking what we wanted and pencilled in a time to be confirmed later with address, ok off to get haircut and get some tidying up done in shower, note to self "don't spray linx near freshly shaven nuts ever again", we spent alot of time getting prepared for the nite ahead. So we get to within an hr of booking and are very anxious so txt to get address.......no reply.....time arrives....another txt.....no reply.....wait till an hr after and send another txt to ask whats going on its late.......no reply! So we go to bed feeling pretty pissed off after building ourselves up for hrs.
    I wake at 5am to see if any reply had come through, nothing! So txt back to say merry xmas and how let down we felt. I should mention this lady has great reviews and knew it was our 1st time and seemed genuinely excited to be our first. Mid morning I get a very apolgetic reply that she'd fallen asleep and said she was coming back to our town early Jan and would give a discount for letting us down. Ok we thought, she seemed sincere so said all was good and got excited again. I asked for dates so we could organise our different shifts and was told she'd get back to us once back at home base down South. I jokingly said we'd heard that before and was assured we'd hear back. Cool.
    Now for 2 weeks we are so worked up we're at it like teen agers haha. The anticipation is almost torture in a good way. At this point I txt and let her know how excited we've been and ask for date again........told the week but no dates. All good will not hound as afraid of being pushy. We may be a bit eager and don't really know what is acceptable contact wise. So its getting close to "our week" and I send a Happy New year txt and ask for dates so we can organise work.............no reply! Now I accept she is busy and the ph I'm txting is her travelling one so not concerned. Now the week was approaching and still no word so I email the agency to ask for dates, nothing, so direct email, nothing. Then Mrs gets in touch via cell to agency, finally gets a "we'll find out" for dates. A few hrs later we're told there are no plans for the girls to come back up here! WTF? I txt her direct to ask whats going on.....surprise.....no reply.
    3 weeks of excitement and anticipation for our 1st time blown out of the sky! Did we do something wrong? Was I too friendly? We're just left feeling like shit and over the whole thing. We thought choosing a well reviewed girl from a well reviewed business was the smart thing to do, apparently not.
    Sorry for the the novel but its driving me bonkers wondering what happened and put us off even trying again. Even signed up for members lounge on nzg and this site to choose her thinking it'd be the right way to go about it all.
    I wanted to name names but if its something we did then I'd feel stink.
    Will add that we ended up going past our only local on new years eve and thought bugger her! Went in and ended up getting it done...........Happy new year to us!
    End of novel...............had to get that out!
    Unfortunately there can be so many reasons why a booking that has been penciled in does not happen. I’ve come to accept that in this industry, a booking is generally not confirmed till I get confirmation of time and the address on the day of the booking. That saves me any disappointment.

    Whilst she is hopeless with communication in this instance, technically she has not confirmed the booking. Quite often too WGs turn off their working phones when they are not working.

    You said you had picked a well-reviewed girl. If you guys still fancy spending time with her, I would give her the benefit of the doubt and try again. If not, move on to the next WG you fancy. Good luck!

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    I would just move on and try someone else there are plenty on N Z girls that I am sure would love to accommondate you
    all the best thanks for sharing

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    Quote Originally Posted by scubamike View Post
    Unfortunately there can be so many reasons why a booking that has been penciled in does not happen. I’ve come to accept that in this industry, a booking is generally not confirmed till I get confirmation of time and the address on the day of the booking. That saves me any disappointment.

    Whilst she is hopeless with communication in this instance, technically she has not confirmed the booking. Quite often too WGs turn off their working phones when they are not working.

    You said you had picked a well-reviewed girl. If you guys still fancy spending time with her, I would give her the benefit of the doubt and try again. If not, move on to the next WG you fancy. Good luck!
    Bullshit, you are too nice, she had many opportunities to respond.
    All she had to say, "I'm sorry, I cannot make it", unless she was dead or incapacitated.
    It's called common decency.

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    Quote Originally Posted by williebefrank View Post
    Bullshit, you are too nice, she had many opportunities to respond.
    All she had to say, "I'm sorry, I cannot make it", unless she was dead or incapacitated.
    It's called common decency.
    Sayin' it like it is!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tmd83 View Post
    Sayin' it like it is!

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    Quote Originally Posted by williebefrank View Post
    Bullshit, you are too nice, she had many opportunities to respond.
    All she had to say, "I'm sorry, I cannot make it", unless she was dead or incapacitated.
    It's called common decency.
    Quote Originally Posted by scubamike
    I’ve come to accept that in this industry, a booking is generally not confirmed till I get confirmation of time and the address on the day of the booking.
    That’s the industry norm the way I see it. I can either get all disappointed over a booking that failed to eventuate after it had been penciled in or I can give her another try if she initiates the next contact, given that she has been well reviewed. Chances are that I’ve already fucked the next WG and the next WG. Life is way too short to get upset over a failed attempt to book for professional sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scubamike View Post
    That’s the industry norm the way I see it. I can either get all disappointed over a booking that failed to eventuate after it had been penciled in or I can give her another try if she initiates the next contact, given that she has been well reviewed. Chances are that I’ve already fucked the next WG and the next WG. Life is way too short to get upset over a failed attempt to book for professional sex.
    Yeah I hear ya! Our prob was being our first time and our anicipation levels were rediculously high. And being strung along with enough contact while waiting made our levels worse haha.
    We decided even if for some reason we were contacted now we'd pass as it would feel like an obligation. Her loss!
    Have since had a visit to the only local place which was great! Prob not the best in choices but the attitude there was awesome and because of that will prob go back as money allows.......can see us being broke this year haha. Gets pricey for couples so we've quit smoking to allow more visits! Swapped one addiction for a new one ��

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    Quote Originally Posted by scubamike View Post
    That’s the industry norm the way I see it.
    It shouldn't be IMO , and the less it is allowed to happen , the more professional the industry becomes .

    Every parlour gets girls who are only used to 'dating' , booty calls and the like -- in Real Life situations , so if the lady says wait 3 hours or 3 weeks , the guy has no choice . But this is different -- this is a job . It sounds like this lady works for an agency , and may still have that attitude . It sounds like she isn't convinced this job is for her ; that she doesn't make much money ( in spite of good reviews -- assuming the reviews are genuine of course ) and won't be around long .

    Imagine if the Supermarket only opened when they felt like it , the mechanic says I can't do your WOF for 3 or 4 weeks , and will call you when they are ready , and you have to have your car there in 20 minutes or they won't check it over and issue the WOF . You'd go elsewhere -- somewhere that gave a better standard of customer service .

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    I think an analysis of whether the booking may be cancelled because it's not confirmed, is not helpful. In this case it's consistent poor communication which taken together amount to unprofessional behaviour and one just has to resolve to give her a wide berth in future.

    Exploringcouple welcome to AF. You've shown restraint in the way you've raised this and are most welcome here.

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